Created with experts, backed by experience

Built with guidance from from Paired’s Head of Relationships Aly Bullock (MFT), these questions invite desire, honesty, and play—no pressure, just the right nudge to move from flirty talk to deeper intimacy. Expect more blushes, bolder yeses, and a bedroom that feels exciting again.

One small box. 200 big conversations.

Simple, Screen-Free Fun

Enjoy quality time together—no phones, just presence and play.

Tools for Every Stage

Whether you're newly dating or years in, the cards meet you where you are.

Deeper Conversations

Move beyond small talk and open up about what really matters.

Strengthened Connection

Foster emotional intimacy and understanding through intentional dialogue.

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is the Bedroom Edition, and how spicy does it get?

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Think of it as your playful intimacy coach in a box. The deck has 200 prompts split into five stacks: Set the Mood (flirty foreplay), In the Moment (touch & pleasure), Sexploration (fantasies, toys, “ooh—tell me more”), Quickies (cheeky, spicy and explicit either-or cards), and an optional wrapped stack, Stories We Bring to Bed, for deeper talk when you’re both ready. It’s bold enough to spark hot nights, but every card is skip-friendly—no pressure, no awkward homework vibe.

We’re not exactly Fifty Shades types—will this feel too wild (or too tame)?

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The deck is choose-your-own heat. Some questions are flirty or fun, and some are more spicy (think BDSM, kinky suggestions, and frisky fantasies). Pull a single Quickie card for more explicit quickfire question, or dive into Sexploration for fantasy fuel. No mandatory kink or no gender stereotypes. LGBTQ+ couples, brand-new pairs, and long-married partners have all tested it and said the same thing: “It meets us where we are—and nudges us one notch hotter.”

My partner can be shy about sexual talk—any tips for starting without weirdness?

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Start light: grab one question from Set the Mood or a Quickie and set a simple rule—yes / skip / later. If something feels off-limits, skip it. Want extra safety? Pick a fun safe-word (we’re partial to “pineapple”) before you begin. Most couples discover that once the first laugh or blush lands, curiosity takes over and the deck does the work.

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